I have hairy legs, mom won't let me wax/shave?

I started shaving in 6th grade. My mom was very against it at first, but I had her talk to some of my friends moms and they all talked and decided that its a normal thing for us girls to want to be clean and hairless. Id try just sitting down and discussing with your mom how you feel uncomfortable having the hair on your legs. I would reccomend shaving though for you at 14. Waxing is expensive and you have to grow your hair out everytime you want a wax. Good luck.